With 2007 quickly coming to a close there is much we can be thankful for and reflect upon.  A writing buddy of mine sent a note and poems to celebrate Thanksgiving.  We are at war, but our nation is steeped in abundance, while many go hungry or homeless.  Though our world is troubled it is ours and we must make sense of things the best we can.  I'd like to share part of Jan Phillips message with you.

"...the only way I can create the kinds of conversations I want to have with people is to GO FIRST and share something personal and meaningful about my own life...then actually inquire into the life of the one I'm with, ask a question that really takes us somewhere.  Think of a few questions you wish people might ask you and ask those questions." 

This is very good advice for those of us who may be tested by siblings or family members that don't agree with our philosophy or still treat us like we're a child, or a befuddled elder.  So much of who we are is based on who we've loved and lived with over the years.  Be more reflective than reactive when your buttons are pushed.  Be grounded.  Be reasonable.  Be grateful for the many blessings we've been given in our lives. 

Have a wonderful holiday season.

BD